The FIRM Guide

The Elder Care Module

The legal authorities, insurance, providers, and personal preferences that govern care if assistance or incapacity arrives — healthcare and financial decision-makers, long-term care coverage, the care team, and stated care preferences.

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Secure Guide Starter Template

This template belongs in The Secure Guide, stored within The Vault. Review when documents, providers, or care arrangements change.

Legal Authority Documents
DocumentDesigneeLocation of OriginalAttorney / PreparerDate ExecutedLast Reviewed

For full estate document inventory, see the Estate Plan Module.

Long-Term Care Insurance
PolicyInsurerPolicy NumberAgent ContactBenefit TriggerDaily / Monthly BenefitElimination PeriodLocation of Policy

For complete insurance documentation, see the Insurance Module.

Primary Care and Specialist Contacts
ProviderSpecialtyPractice / FacilityPhonePatient PortalNotes

Preferred care setting if assistance is needed; preferred setting if independent living is no longer possible; facilities or arrangements to avoid; known preferences on hospitalization or aggressive intervention. For legally binding preferences, see the Advance Healthcare Directive.

Caregiver and Support Network
NameRelationshipRolePhoneNotes

Family Guide Starter Template

This template belongs in The Family Guide. It names the decision-makers and summarizes care preferences in plain language.

The designated healthcare proxy (name, phone) if the person cannot make medical decisions. The Healthcare Power of Attorney document location is noted.

The designated power of attorney (name, phone) if the person cannot manage financial affairs. The Durable Power of Attorney document location is noted.

A plain-language summary of care preferences, written by the planner in their own voice. Not legally binding, but reflects genuine wishes.

Note that a policy is in place; policy number and agent contact are in The Secure Guide. Contact the agent before arranging paid care — the policy has a benefit trigger and elimination period.

Name, practice, and phone.